No-go zones
Just recently in my life I came to realize that there is the potential of me having a significant other. Not a real true whatever one, just someone who I love and who loves me back, who happens to be male (who said oversimplifying wasn't fun?)
And then I realized that, like the rest of the people in my life, he probably wouldn't want me to mention so much about him on my blog.
It wouldn't be so hard to leave him out of my postings, because I practice discretion in not posting so much that is too private about my life, and yet...I guess at times it would be. Because he'd be part of my life. It'd be like a no-go zone.
And I don't like no-go zones.
Seeing as I am a rather whimmy person, I blog about whatever comes. People are constantly asking me "why didn't you blog about this?" (substitute this for that as you feel led). The answer is, I don't feel like it. I blog whatever comes. Please believe me.
Basically, there will be times, I know, when I will feel like blogging about the him. What to do, what to do. I don't like being censored.
I don't blog about people, generally. There are people that are very special to me, but I don't mention them. I guess at times I don't feel like crudifying their existance by writing them out on my blog. They're worth more than that. So I don't mention them at all. Like bringing electricity into the past.
But people are so much of my life. They're the better part and the worse part. I'm so not an island.
So I guess I already have no-go zones.
Ha ha...I'm so not ready for an SO. Whatever that means. Ha ha ha.
And then I realized that, like the rest of the people in my life, he probably wouldn't want me to mention so much about him on my blog.
It wouldn't be so hard to leave him out of my postings, because I practice discretion in not posting so much that is too private about my life, and yet...I guess at times it would be. Because he'd be part of my life. It'd be like a no-go zone.
And I don't like no-go zones.
Seeing as I am a rather whimmy person, I blog about whatever comes. People are constantly asking me "why didn't you blog about this?" (substitute this for that as you feel led). The answer is, I don't feel like it. I blog whatever comes. Please believe me.
Basically, there will be times, I know, when I will feel like blogging about the him. What to do, what to do. I don't like being censored.
I don't blog about people, generally. There are people that are very special to me, but I don't mention them. I guess at times I don't feel like crudifying their existance by writing them out on my blog. They're worth more than that. So I don't mention them at all. Like bringing electricity into the past.
But people are so much of my life. They're the better part and the worse part. I'm so not an island.
So I guess I already have no-go zones.
Ha ha...I'm so not ready for an SO. Whatever that means. Ha ha ha.
posted by Florence at 5:35 PM
3 comments:
I don't like the idea of no-go zones either...still, I suppose something must be said for discretion.
Actually, let me just take that back; discretion is a lovely thing for you to keep in mind. As for me, I definitely got off on a foot here, and I'm just beginning to wonder if it may've been the wrong one.
YOU know what I mean.
Maybe a little less discretion, and a little more disclosing may be in order.
Here's to blogging whatever comes!
Amen.
Yo ho ho and a bottle of...
Yeeeeeah.
Damn inside jokes are not fulfilling.
I like the new colors and design girls! I haven't visited here for just a few days and i feel a book has been written ..but yes, the discretion part...it really is something to think about. I can't write half my life down because half my life or more, involves my "No-go zones". makes me feel limited but at the same time, it's not like I'd tell every passing stranger about my life and give them references to my deepest most sacred thoughts..So yeah, I wouldn't personally expect you to bash out your love life haha although..that could be interesting mwahaha
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